Sovereign Love

Love Loop Decoder

This reflective decoder helps you notice the relational strategy that may be most active in a relationship or situation you have in mind.

It is not a diagnosis, personality test or fixed identity. More than one Love Loop may be active, and your pattern may change with context.

Before you begin: choose one relationship or recurring situation and answer from what you actually do when connection feels emotionally significant, uncertain or threatened. Use the scale Rarely / Sometimes / Often / Mostly / Not applicable.